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It’s not “soft”, not when the core values are built on empathy, understanding, respect, and boundaries.

Gentle Parenting, Heartfelt Not Permissive

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Gentle parenting has been criticized as a mild-mannered, seemingly scripted parenting style, but thinking this way is a serious misunderstanding of what gentle truly means.

Gentle parenting, or gentleness itself, is not about being soft or permissive. It’s about fostering a relationship where understanding, empathy, respect, and boundaries take precedence over rigid rules. In a world full of conflicting parenting approaches, gentle parenting takes a heartfelt approach that nurtures a supportive environment.

Your child learns from their mistakes

Labeling your child’s behavior in a rigid binary of good or bad can be counterintuitive. Your child may not fully grasp what makes behavior good or bad. Worse, they may stop the “bad” behavior simply out of fear of the label.

You foster their empathy

There are no ABCs to empathy for your child to learn, or tests to give them an empathy score. It’s only through real-life situations that empathy can be learned. When they do something that upsets you, explaining how it affected you and gently guiding them toward improvement gives them the opportunity to develop empathy naturally. Over time, this approach helps them genuinely understand others’ feelings and perspectives.

You get to understand your child better

Gentle parenting also benefits your relationship with your child. By mutually considering each other’s feelings and boundaries, your child’s trust in you grows. Moreover, creating a comfortable space for expressing feelings, desires, and needs helps you understand how to use gifts, rewards, and motivational tools effectively, while addressing their non-negotiables becomes easier.

You parent yourself too

Chances are, your parenting style is influenced by your own upbringing. You might aspire to replicate or contrast with your own parents’ methods. Gentle parenting encourages introspection into these influences. It allows you to discern which methods are worth keeping, which might need adjustment, and which should be discarded altogether, based on what works best for you and your child. In a way, it offers a second chance at growing up and healing childhood wounds.

Gentle parenting promotes understanding, empathy, respect, and boundaries, alongside its own imperfections. Ultimately, parenting isn’t about achieving perfection—perfect parenting doesn’t exist. Rather, it’s about finding the style that suits you and your child best. Take your time and make changes as needed. You’ve got this, mom!

Sources: www.parent.com